We have to acknowledge that we misjudged things and that we have some learning and growing to do, and this may have very painful associations for us.
Feeling stuck may be exacerbated if we keep using that same map and plan in an effort to generate a different result.
We feel in command of us and we stop feeling stuck. Whether it's figuring out what’s going on in a troubling relationship, understanding you and self-care, or being more assertive, I’m here to help you guide you.
We’ll hurt but we’ll gradually have the perspective to bounce back.
It’s not fair to put your life on hold, to exclude you from your friendships and other close connections, to compare you, to use this train of thought as a way of procrastinating so that you can avoid what you feel is a bigger pain and/or avoid having to take action.
It’s not fair to continue raking over it just so that you can feel purposeful.
Eight Days - The Mystery of Jeong-jo's Assassination (2007) 364.
Fukuoka Renai Hakusho 9: Looking Up at the Sun and the Moon [SP] (2014) 436.