What they are doing is really uncool and unacceptable. Your ex and "your friend" are the ones who should feel stupid, NOT YOU! Their relationship is working because of the "scandalous and forbidden" element. When that wears off, and everyone in the community moves on to the next piece of gossip, and your ex and your friend really get to know each other, the appeal will fade. He or she could be doing this to you to act out his or her passive aggressive anger. Dating a friend of your ex is simpler when your relationship with your ex was one of those casual “let’s just hang out until we don’t want to anymore” things.When it’s a friend of a long-term ex, it can be trickier, especially if you all used to hang out on the regular.It’s always wrong to date your best friend’s ex, right? If there aren’t any hard feelings, she’s probably not going to mind. Despite what girl code might say, it’s not always so black and white. Just make sure she’s not still interested in him first.
Oh yeah, initially you did meet them through your ex.... The relationship lasted for about 6 months (I think) and years later, I've come to realize how silly and stupid I was for having the reaction I did. Grit your teeth, accept it, act classy and show grace to the outside world. She is also the author of her new divorce novel with the same name, as well as her other divorce novel, FREE GIFT WITH PURCHASE. Pilossoph is a weekly business features reporter and columnist for Sun-Times Media. I hated them and everyone else who I thought could possibly know about their relationship. I thought about them giggling and laughing and kissing and being blissfully happy. The fact that this girl did this to you is probably making you feel insecure about girl friendships. They will assure you that they are your best friends and that you are loved. A good friend used to say to me, "You're on your own road. " Lastly, if you are on the other end of this, meaning if you are the one who starts dating your friend's ex, PLEASE handle it this way. Jackie Pilossoph is the author of the blog, Divorced Girl Smiling. It depends on how you're going to deal with this.You're walking on a tightrope right now and a wrong move could potentially end friendships so no pressure. Before even contemplating talking to T about this, you need to give W a heads up.